If you oppress someone long enough, they can become the object of their own oppression. What if, when we find ourselves inside the centrifuge of bitterness, we then become the object of our own oppression – creating a habitual pattern of loneliness, isolation, and unforgiveness?
What does it take to get out?
Viktor Frankl, author of Man’s Search for Meaning and a psychiatrist who endured over 2 years in a concentration camp during world war II, wrote “I consider it a dangerous misconception of mental hygiene to assume that what man needs in the first place is equilibrium or, as it is called in biology, “homeostasis,” i.e., a tensionless state. What man actually needs is not a tensionless state but rather the striving and struggling for a worthwhile goal, a freely chosen task.
Whatever occupies your mind is your vision.