What if despair isn’t a “bad” thing?
What if it is rather simply an invitation into a new conversation.
A conversation beyond the judgment of it and the thinking of “I shouldn’t be in despair.”
A conversation that reveals that you actually care enough about something to be in despair about it.
So what if you stopped judging your despair and just let it be. Get some perspective from those around you. And keep yourself open to what is being revealed in it.